Varför gillar inte tjejer snälla killar?
finns inga snälla killar!
Enligt mig är såna tjejer inget att ha ändå. Jag hade hellre varit ensam än varit med en sån tjej.
tror att de flesta "snälla" killar bara är snälla, och det blir ju ganska tråkigt ändå ^^.
killar som faktiskt är niceguys är väll awesome. fast det beror väll också på vilket sätt, om man samtidigt är blyg och pryd kanske det blir lite jobbigt.. eller om dom inte tar initiativ eller inte vågar vara nått dominanta. men alla snälla killar är ju inte så, men det är om nått det enda problemet jag skulle ha med det.
vad som saknas är romantiker, killar som kan ta initiativ men som ändå är genuint snälla.
Alltså, jag tror att alla tjejer (omedvetet) betraktar killen som en sorts ägodel. man vill gärna visa upp sin kille och säga till sina kompisar "kolla vilken snygg kille jag har" och det kanske ger "fler poäng" att ha en "alfapojkvänn" än en "snäll slätstruken pojkvän" typ för att man har, fått kämpa mer för att få en tuff kille att falla för en.
men oavsett vilken sorts kille man är tycker jag att man ska fortsätta vara en själv, det lönar sig i slutändan. jag skulle inte ha något emot att ha en badass pojkvänn, men jag skulle såklart också älska att ha en mysig romantisk kille :3
Vera gillar mig, och jag är snäll. ):
Vill hellre ha en "snäll" pojkvän D:
Jag gillar snälla killar. Frågan är om dom får vara föör snälla :O
jag föredrar snälla killar, endel har bah vart snälla i början och sen, visat sin evul darkside;<
*vinkar med en flagga där de står, snälla killar komsi komsi!*
fast det gör vi ju, alla faller inte för samma typ av killar så sluta dra alla tejer över en och samma kant haha :)
som sagt, jag tror inte att det är skillnaden mellan "snälla killar" och "bad boys" som spelar någon roll.
är man en intressant person, och tjejen du pratar med tycker om dig, är det på grund av hela dig, inte just hur du pratar/behandlar med tjejen.
till alla brudar som inte vill ha snälla killar, ni kommer ångra er later on;
“What happened to all the nice guys?"
The answer is simple: you did.
See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He’d tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn’t feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were fucking treated you.
At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were “just friends.” Besides, he totally wasn’t your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn’t know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.
Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren’t the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you’re single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, “What happened to all the nice guys?”
Well, once again, you did.
You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive “just-a-” friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren’t really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you’re upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he’d have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.
Fact is, now, he’s probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I’m sorry that it took the complete absence of “nice guys” in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.
So, if you’re looking for a nice guy, here’s what you do:
1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
3.) Take a look at what’s right in front of you and grab ahold of it.
I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don’t really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.
If you were five years younger.
So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you’ve fucked yourself over. You’re getting older, after all. It’s time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn’t want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn’t fucking want you, now.
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johanNMA: Inte för att vara dryg eller så, men undrar om de verkligen kommer läsa en wall of text om deras öde :<
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