A real man or just a nice guy

En vän länkade en lista till mig igår, en lista som var väldigt jobbig att läsa men ändå nyttig. Det enda jag stör mig på är namnet på listan, vadå en "real man"?
Hur som helst så sa min vän att han själv kände igen sig på många punkter, och att han även kände igen mig på vissa punkter. Jag tar några av dom punkter som jag ansåg viktiga:

The nice guy:

1. Has low self-esteem, doesn’t value himself highly. Might be out of past failures or other deep-rooted emotional issues.

2. Constantly seeks approval, validation, or attention from others, usually out of a low self-worth. Cares what everyone else thinks of him, fears disapproval.

3. Idealizes potential mates and overlooks their flaws aka “puts them on a pedestal”. Does the same with relationships and devotes large amounts of emotion, time, energy, and money early on.

4. Kisses-up and is totally agreeable to try and “score points” with people, especially women. Will never disagree for fear of upsetting her. Places his needs last and tries to satisfy everyone else before him.

5. Is easily emotionally destabilized, gets worked up over meaningless things. “Loses his cool” and has outbursts of anger.

6. Whines and complains, usually to get pity or sympathy. Has a negative attitude and a cynical outlook on life.


http://www.nicknotas.com/blog/are-you-a-real-man-or-just-a-nice-guy/
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